雪松 发表于 2024-4-24 07:04:35

对于恶俗婚闹,网友称,就一个“借势欺人

<!----><style type="text/css">html{font-size:375%}</style><link href="https://pic.app.bighandan.com/static/publish/css/style.css?v=1605251010503" rel="stylesheet" position="1" data-qf-origin="/static/publish/css/style.css?v=1605251010503"><!--    付费贴-->    <div class="preview_article ">            <!---->    <p>对于恶俗婚闹,网友称,就一个&ldquo;借势欺人&rdquo;罢了,何必用风俗背锅?那借什么势呢?</p><p>1:新婚随礼,拿人家钱了。2:新婚图热闹,不易翻脸,能忍则忍的心理。3:借过关的习俗,变本加厉,借口我结婚的时候,你怎么整我的,玩不起啊?4:结婚方,确实势弱,不敢得罪人脉。5:有人起头,法不罚众的心理。如上所述,风俗,升级为瞎闹腾,有过失死伤的,有强奸猥亵的,有当众翻脸的,最不济,也得受罪受气。关键是,你这样整人家,人家记心里了,你结婚的时候,人家得报复回来,形成恶性循环的圈子。所以,政府牵头,批评恶俗,劝行礼仪,很重要。起码结婚一方,有借口让大家悠着点,喝喝混合酒,唱唱表白歌就算了。事实是,婚闹也有地域区别,有的地方走走过场就完了,有的地方很文艺,很仪式,很文明,有的地方,确实瞎闹,不作死都不算气氛。#婚闹##男人##恶俗#</p><p class="qf_image big noneditable" contenteditable="false"><img src="https://pic.app.bighandan.com/forum/20240424070417front2_0_34710_FqnbM8KVDzsvdsaIegW2jQ_UrjFK.jpg?watermark/1/image/aHR0cHM6Ly9waWMuYXBwLmJpZ2hhbmRhbi5jb20vYWRtaW5fRmo5dk56czFJRktUSTFMeG1LWFdPVGRsbWltSC5wbmc=/dissolve/100/gravity/NorthWest" alt="" width="383" height="462" data-qf-origin="forum/20240424070417front2_0_34710_FqnbM8KVDzsvdsaIegW2jQ_UrjFK.jpg?watermark/1/image/aHR0cHM6Ly9waWMuYXBwLmJpZ2hhbmRhbi5jb20vYWRtaW5fRmo5dk56czFJRktUSTFMeG1LWFdPVGRsbWltSC5wbmc=/dissolve/100/gravity/NorthWest" /></p><p class="empty_paragraph">&nbsp;</p><p class="qf_image big noneditable" contenteditable="false"><img src="https://pic.app.bighandan.com/forum/20240424070418front2_0_34710_FmcqDwGOuV6ELUAxD8H68YBXL3dr.jpg?watermark/1/image/aHR0cHM6Ly9waWMuYXBwLmJpZ2hhbmRhbi5jb20vYWRtaW5fRmo5dk56czFJRktUSTFMeG1LWFdPVGRsbWltSC5wbmc=/dissolve/100/gravity/NorthWest" alt="" width="603" height="462" data-qf-origin="forum/20240424070418front2_0_34710_FmcqDwGOuV6ELUAxD8H68YBXL3dr.jpg?watermark/1/image/aHR0cHM6Ly9waWMuYXBwLmJpZ2hhbmRhbi5jb20vYWRtaW5fRmo5dk56czFJRktUSTFMeG1LWFdPVGRsbWltSC5wbmc=/dissolve/100/gravity/NorthWest" /></p><p class="empty_paragraph">&nbsp;</p><p class="qf_image big noneditable" contenteditable="false"><img src="https://pic.app.bighandan.com/forum/20240424070418front2_0_34710_FltUFeJudpzanCTcXtTBfG0RPoEE.jpg?watermark/1/image/aHR0cHM6Ly9waWMuYXBwLmJpZ2hhbmRhbi5jb20vYWRtaW5fRmo5dk56czFJRktUSTFMeG1LWFdPVGRsbWltSC5wbmc=/dissolve/100/gravity/NorthWest" alt="" width="520" height="776" data-qf-origin="forum/20240424070418front2_0_34710_FltUFeJudpzanCTcXtTBfG0RPoEE.jpg?watermark/1/image/aHR0cHM6Ly9waWMuYXBwLmJpZ2hhbmRhbi5jb20vYWRtaW5fRmo5dk56czFJRktUSTFMeG1LWFdPVGRsbWltSC5wbmc=/dissolve/100/gravity/NorthWest" /></p><p class="empty_paragraph">&nbsp;</p><p class="qf_image big noneditable" contenteditable="false"><img src="https://pic.app.bighandan.com/forum/20240424070418front2_0_34710_Fsu-urP35Zw0xvvwi-kBeonDZ6JO.jpg?watermark/1/image/aHR0cHM6Ly9waWMuYXBwLmJpZ2hhbmRhbi5jb20vYWRtaW5fRmo5dk56czFJRktUSTFMeG1LWFdPVGRsbWltSC5wbmc=/dissolve/100/gravity/NorthWest" alt="" width="1080" height="2400" data-qf-origin="forum/20240424070418front2_0_34710_Fsu-urP35Zw0xvvwi-kBeonDZ6JO.jpg?watermark/1/image/aHR0cHM6Ly9waWMuYXBwLmJpZ2hhbmRhbi5jb20vYWRtaW5fRmo5dk56czFJRktUSTFMeG1LWFdPVGRsbWltSC5wbmc=/dissolve/100/gravity/NorthWest" /></p><p>&nbsp;</p>    <!----></div>            

:宇宙星 发表于 2024-4-24 10:45:06

恶俗婚闹不可取。

秋雨竹韵 发表于 2024-4-24 22:25:06

恶俗婚闹不可取。
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